We left Antigua and headed home on Saturday. I have to say I COULDN'T WAIT to sleep in my own bed!!! My grandparents met us at the international arrivals terminal in the airport and I think they may have been more excited than we were to be home (my grandmother just about jumped the rope to take a picture of us coming out with all of our luggage)!
No question, we are all happy to be home. However, all of us had an amazing time on this trip and I, for one, am surprised at how much I enjoyed it. I could easily spend a few weeks in my own bed, restock on books, check in with a few friends, update songs on my i-touch, and head back out there for a few more weeks. All of us feel that way. All in all, Raindrops was a great boat and we were sad to leave her tied up at the marina so that we could head home to Atlanta.
Being together on the sailboat for a month was an amazing experience that none of us will ever forget. Grant, Lindsay and I went from not really having a clue how to sail to being able to hoist the sail on our own and pick up a mooring ball or drop anchor in a bay independently. We went from being a little nervous about traveling to foreign countries to being able to jump into the dinghy upon arriving at a French island and going ashore (without our parents) to get a pain chocolat. We sailed through two pretty serious storms and we all overcame our fears by dealing with the huge waves, reefing sails in a rain storm, and being 30 nautical miles off shore and out of sight of any land. We had studied our knots before leaving Atlanta, but now any of us could tie a bowline blindfolded. We've chartered sailboats as a family before, but this was the first time we kids were expected to help sail, navigate, anchor, communicate, provision, and help take care of all that must be done while living at sea.
We all grew in our own ways. I for one went from feeling like I wanted to puke every minute to finding my favorite spot on the boat under the mainsail and riding through the big waves or taking the helm and holding our course. And I mastered the laundromat (in a foreign country) which certainly means that I can handle laundry when I head off to college. Grant went from not knowing the difference between a jib sheet and a main sheet (whoops - big difference) to being able to hoist the sail, reef the sail and furl the jib totally solo. Lindsay went from being completely freaked out to even get in the water at Stingray City to diving under the water with her snorkel gear to follow sea turtles and pick up starfish...not to mention being able to drive the dinghy by herself.
Mom and Dad were experienced sailors, but they had never sailed for a month like this before. Mom went from being a little nervous about communicating over the VHF to calling the Basseterre Marina and coordinating our arrival completely in French (well, at least it sounded enough like French that they got the idea). And she was really freaked out about reefing while underway until she reefed the sail in 25 knots of wind in a major storm on our way to Guadeloupe (and she learned not to try that in a storm again!).
Dad knew about this stuff coming into the trip - - but even he became a better sailor and more knowledgeable about boating. Dad went from knowing enough about basic boat maintenance to changing the impeller on the starboard engine -- I guess that's something a lot of boat owners wouldn't even attempt on their own, we later discovered. And more importantly, he went from always trying to maintain our fast, demanding schedule to chilling out a bit, slowing down and spending more time in each port so we could really experience and enjoy it (I think that happened when we finally got to Pigeon Island, Guadeloupe and decided just to stay put for a few days).
The best thing about our trip was the people. We learned so much from them. Both the people on the boats that we met who live aboard their sailboats and homeschool from there and the people we met who live on the islands. From the live-aboard boaters, we learned that people can have very different lives and school experiences than we do - not everybody grows up going to big public schools with a million different activities, taking crazy challenging AP classes, and worrying about SAT prep. Yet they still aspire to go to great colleges and pursue laudable professions when they graduate. They are just going about it all in a different way than we are. They had such strong family bonds and really enjoyed being together.
And from the natives that we met in the countries - it was really incredible to hear about how proud they are of their heritage and their nations. George, Percy, Neil, Eugene and Titus were fantastic and we would not have really developed an understanding of the culture without meeting and hanging out with them. And the two high school boys that we met who were so thrilled to practice their English by talking to us and so excited that we were Americans. But I think I loved meeting the little boy in Customs in Barbuda the best.
I know that this was the trip of a lifetime and we probably may never have another family trip where the five of us get away for a whole month. Even if Mom and Dad could get away for that long, Grant, Lindsay and I are so involved in school and activities that I can't imagine we will be able to pull this off again. But, I'm really glad that we were able to make this happen this year.
I'm not really sure who is reading this blog. We did the blog to keep some people from panicking while we were away just sort of as a way of checking in (for my grandparents, mainly) and for those who couldn't imagine spending a month living on a boat. In the end I think it will be a good way to preserve our memories as we can go back to the first few days and re-live it all over again.
Anyway, whoever you are, thanks for following along.
That's all for now...
Standing by on 06.
Raindrops.